Get naughty this festive season
The holiday season has arrived and for a couple it is the ideal time to spend time together in the confines of the bedroom and make every minute an enjoyable one. It is the time to move away from the stress of day to day life and engage in romance, sex or just send quality time with your partner. Do remember that you must not over indulge in shopping and tire your selves such that you do not have the energy to be really active in bed. Moreover, you must ensure that the kids are sent off to a relative or friend’s place.
Some tips to make the holidays count are as under:
1. To start with, you need to give time to your self and indulge in the most luxuriant massages and spa activities. This will invigorate you and give you the energy to provide enjoyment and pleasure to your partner. The afternoon can be spent with your partner pleasuring each other with sex toys and the like.
2. You can set the tone for the holidays by going out for a romantic lunch and then come home for an activity like painting each other with chocolate. The exciting part is when you lick the chocolate of each other and engage in lustful sex there after.
3. If you do have social engagements, try to limit them to not more than a couple of hours. Remember, these holidays are for you and your partner to spend time with each other in the bedroom doing the things you always wanted to but could not due to paucity of time and everyday stress.
4. You can present her a raunchy book to read in order to get her into the mood.
5. Indulge your partner by purchasing sexy Christmas lingerie and doing a role play to get the juices flowing. The ones to go for are the red velvet bra and panty ones as well as g-strings to really make your partner look sexy. They are not very expensive and you will do well to buy it for her.
6. Watch a good porn film together. Some soft porn movies are very good and will help in setting the mood for sex.
7. Indulge in sex positions not tried before. You can try anal sex if not attempted before and break the taboo. You can also add the excitement of bondage sex or blindfold your partner. Bondage need not always be chains and handcuffs. You can tie her up with her own panties and ravish her at your leisure while she experiences the thrill of being enjoyed by you from a state of helplessness.
8. Naughty dressing is another wonderful way to explore a different facet of sex. Ask your partner about her fantasy and dress the part. It could be anything from a stripper to a fireman or a doctor. Your partner can reciprocate this for you and both of you can have a wild time.
9. Try filming your selves in the act of sex. This is again tremendously arousing and you can both watch it any time to get into the mood.
As you can see, there are many ways to enjoy your self during the coming holidays. It just requires some imagination and letting go of inhibitions. This is not to say that you must only spend time indoors and not enjoy a family outing with the kids or go out with your partner for a short picnic. You can do all of that but make sure that you utilise the opportunity to get really naughty in your bedroom this festive season.